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Principles of Appeal
There are 17 steps we can follow in appealing
to another person to respond to God's principles.


Paul used these 17 when appealing to Philemon to
forgive Onesimus.
  1. Paul humbled himself and placed himself
    below Philemon. “Prisoner” 1:1
  2. Paul shared his interest in Philemon's
    welfare by thanking God and praying
    for him. 1:4
  3. Paul complimented Philemon in a positive
    area that Philemon was developing. “Love
    and faith toward all saints”. 1:5-6
  4. Paul shares the joy he experiences in their
    relationship as friends. 1:7a
  5. Paul shares the blessings others are
    experiencing because of Philemon’s ministry.
    1:7b
  6. Paul asks, but doesn’t demand. “Beseech”
    1:9a
  7. Paul appeals by drawing sympathy. 1:9b
  8. Paul identifies with the situation Philemon
    is facing. 1:10
  9. Paul visualizes the future potential both to
    Philemon and himself if he responds. 1:11
  10. Paul shares the present benefit of
    responding properly. 1:13
  11. Paul does not force the decision but allows
    Philemon to think through and make the
    decision on his own. 1:14
  12. Paul visualizes the possible purpose for
    the failure and God’s future goal in using
    the past failure. 1:15-16
  13. Paul shares what he would do if he were
    Philemon. 1:17
  14. Paul offers to help with any difficulties
    that may arise. 1:18-19
  15. Paul shares his joy and refreshment in
    Philemon's proper response. 1:20
  16. Paul expected a positive response. 1:21
  17. To make sure Philemon responds Paul shares
    his desire to visit him to see what
    decision he has made. (accountability)
    1:22


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© John Regier, 1991


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